bios/motherboard doesn't recognize/see all dimms. 2 out of 3 show in bios

"ok thanks to hointa from: ocz forum

i was able to get it working...

I bought an Asus P6T - it doesn't use the Foxconn socket, it has a loates brand socket. I'm not 100% sure this is contributing as I bent some pins on the Asrock and didn't try it again.
i REALLY had to torque the heatsink down tight =\ what really bugs me though, is that scythe says in the manual don't overdo it bc you might break the mobo...

well i'm seeing all 6gb now and i overclocked the i7 920 to 4.2ghz with the scythe mugen 2 =] it is running at 68-70 on 100% load prime95 on the asus p6t

all is well!

thank you quack and chronos for your help and ideas."