Can I use iPhone 5s charger port in an iPhone se?

"No

20charbecausesomestupidpeoplesaidso"

No, it seems it doesnt! The connectors types are reversed comparing to 5s, and they are part from the cable band which I dont imagine how’d be “easily transfered”. I lost some hours and money because of that comment!

Actually, the charging ports are exactly the same apart from the socket where the home button connects to. The only difference is that it appears to have an extra bit of "housing" where the home button flex connection sits which can easily be transferred from the original cable anyway. I've just connected a 5S charging port to a SE and it charges perfectly!

Well it worked perfectly for me so you must be doing something wrong or used too much pressure connecting it to the board.